1.09.2009

Seven Months and Growing, and also Two Year Olds Biting

So as I'm sure you've figured out, Sydney turned 7 months old yesterday. And her first tooth just broke through a few days ago! She seemed to be teething the whole of our Christmas break, though no drool, and David got his first at 5 months, so I knew it was coming soon. She scoots in circles and is working to go forward though she hasn't accomplished it yet. She prefers her stomache so she is very strong in her arms and back. This helps her push away from mommy when she's holding her. She's just as active as David was at this age(for those of you who don't know what that's like- I'm sure she'd love to be running, but since she can't, that means wiggling, throwing her arms around, kicking her feet, and throwing her head around to see EVERYTHING on a constant basis). I have to say I actually really like how wiggly my kids are. They are just so cute and entertaining. Sydney's also still very vocal and is trying new noises all the time. She has almost mastered sitting up. Something I think she would have by now if not for her being held all the time for our 2 weeks of Christmas and family (which she loved by the way). I'm sure she will have it down soon enough. She loves to watch our baby einstien movie, and she and David love each other. I'm hoping that lasts! She also loves to stare at her Daddy, and when he looks up at her she breaks into a HUGE smile. It is so cute! We love our Sydney! She is such a joy to us.

So David tried something new today! Biting. Eek! He got frustrated enough that he tried to bite his friend. Luckily he only got his friends clothes! This is the first time he's done this. Do any of you more experienced mothers out there know a good way to stop this from happening again? I really don't want this to become a habbit!

6 comments:

Janel said...

It was fun to read about all your adventures from Christmas. Your Sydney is stinkin cute, and growing so fast. David is huge. By the way I love your new header, so clever. Did you take that pic? Hopefully someday we will get to see you guys again. Hey, I have a great idea. You guys should come visit us in MI:).

Rebecca Pierce said...

Biting is not a fun one to deal with! Good luck!

Katie Phillips said...

Emma hasn't ever had a problem with biting, thankfully!

I don't know what your method of discipline is, but I really recommend 'the naughty spot.' That's what the Suppernanny lady on TV does. Here's a link to information about it: http://www.supernanny.com/Advice/-/Supernanny-techniques/-/Discipline-and-reward/The-naughty-mat-technique.aspx

We used to send Emma to her room when she misbehaved, but she started throwing her toys around, banged on the door and even broke a little dollhouse of hers in two! I didn't know what to do, and I always wondered when she was in her room, "Has she been in there long enough?" "When should I let her out, and what exactly should I say so she won't do whatever again?"

We started the naughty spot (The website talks about a mat to sit them on that is portable, but we've been using a chair.) and it has worked very well. I had to sit by her the first few times to keep her there, but now I put her there and can do whatever for the three minutes that she's there, cause she knows I'll be right over there by her if ever she tries to get away. I also really like that we talk about what she did that was wrong, she appologizes, and then we hug. I feel much better about how the situation is delt with, then when we just sent her to her room.

She really doesn't like the naughty spot, I think because she can't destroy or take her anger out on anything, so when I warn her about going to the naughty spot she usually will settle down/stop misbehaving a lot quicker than before when we would tell her she was going to have to go to her room.

Anyway, that was a bit lengthy! Sorry! Good luck!

The Robisons said...

Yuck, biting is not fun! When Kinsey had her biting spell, I just tried to keep in mind that she did it out of frustration, but I definitely didn't let it go. I think I pulled her out of the situation, sternly told her "No biting" and then gave her words for it like, "Are you mad?" "Are you two not sharing?", "are you sad?", that kinda thing, and then it would open up what little conversation could come from the kid and then immediately took her to apologize. Even if she didn't get what she was apologizing for in the beginning, it was a good habit to replace the bad one and then eventually she started to just take herself out of the situation and would come to me and tell me about it. It seemed like her biting spell went by super fast, but every kid is different and I KNOW I will have to battle with Jonas for a longer time with everything. He just seems like he isn't scared by a stern voice and glaring eyes like Kinsey was!

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PhilipsPhorum said...

Hey Farmer! Your family is ADORABLE! I love the pics. Now that I'm a mom, I'm just getting in to blogging :) But I'll be checking back often!